Infidelity is a huge problem in relationships because it involves lying, dishonesty, and meanness.
Whether you’ve been cheated on before or just want to know how to keep your partner loyal to you, it’s important to first understand why men cheat on the women they love.
Most men do not cheat because they are no longer in love with their partners. Rather, married men say they are cheating because they want more variety in their lives or because they feel there is a gap somewhere in their lives that they think their wives simply can’t fill.
Some men complain that they are bored. Or they say they want to be loved by their partners. Or they want to assert their freedom. Or they’re tired of feeling like they’re useless and just disappointed. The discussion is wide and we will not dissect the reasons today, but only what you can do to avoid infidelity.
With these things in mind, here are 10 things you can do to keep him loyal or prevent him from cheating on you again:
1. Be willing to initiate Romance
Many men see interest in Romance as a measure of their desire.
Help your boyfriend or husband feel wanted by making sure he knows how much you want him.
2. Be open to experiencing new things
It’s easy to fall into the trap of comfort, and the fear of the unknown can keep you from being open to various experiences, especially Appealing ones. Tell your boyfriend or husband that you are willing and eager to try new things.
It’s not about trying things that you find really repulsive, but about opening your mind to the idea of being playful and experimenting with something new with the man you love.
3. Don’t change your physical appearance too much for him
Sometimes, in a relationship, a woman may try too hard to change the way she looks to please her partner. Men come into contact with a very clear picture of what a partner looks like, and this is often in stark contrast to who that person really is.
Women strive to become the person their partner wants, and they lose. Then, one day, the man realizes that this is what he asked for, but he is no longer sure that this is what he really wants.
Keep a healthy sense of self in your relationship and be natural, be who you are, don’t try to be different.
4.Be careful not to become obsessed with control
Often, without realizing it, when we enter into a relationship, we try to control the other person so that he does what works best for us.
This involves destructive habits, such as complaining, blaming, criticizing, insulting, punishing, bribing, or rewarding in order to control it.
5. Make sure he knows how much you appreciate him
Sometimes, when women fall in love and get married, they begin to experience a false sense of security. Remember, being in a relationship with someone is a voluntary act. A person can leave at any time.
With the rising divorce rates of recent times, we need to remember how important it is to maintain a positive relationship, not just get one.
A mutual understanding of communication styles can help in this regard.
6. Encourage him to take time only for himself
Some men cheat because they begin to feel trapped in a relationship. An affair can give them the feeling of freedom they lose in a relationship.
Give her time for herself without you. Don’t try to monopolize your partner all the time.
Be open to time spent separately so that he can spend it with friends and do what he likes, so that he does not feel that he does not have freedom.
7. Be aware of your feelings
Women are masters at using their emotions to convey messages without saying a word. We communicate anger, sadness and disappointment to our partners.
Instead of taking this as a clue to change something they are doing wrong, some men start looking for another partner to idolize them as you have done before. Remember, your husband wants to know that he is burning you, not that he is constantly disappointing you.
8. Prioritize your relationship
Often, when a man cheats, you will find that the woman also has an affair, but not an appealing one, but rather a social one.
This adventure takes the form of prioritizing something, anything, but not the relationship. It could be about work, children, a sick relative, a charity or anything else that puts a man somewhere at the end of her list of priorities.
Prioritize your relationship over anything else. This is the relationship you want to last a lifetime. Other things will disappear and the relationship will stay there if you take care of her.
Make him feel like a priority in the relationship!
9. Teach Her the Language of Love
If you are unfamiliar with Dr. Gary Chapman’s “Five Languages of Love,” you should better document yourself. This has a strong potential to save marriages.
Learn the language of your partner’s love and speak his language regularly. He will know that he is loved and will remain faithful to you when you express your love in his language, which will prevent him from cheating.
10. Recognize Relationship Patterns
Some men simply believe that it is written in their genes to have romance with as many women or women as they can.
If this is the faith of your boyfriend or husband, it probably won’t matter what you do. He’s going to cheat on you anyway.
Try to recognize men like them in advance, taking an interest in the history of their previous relationships. If it’s a pattern, it probably won’t change just because you love it “best.”