This month hasn’t been the easiest on everyone in the zodiac. Some signs have been dealing with more struggles than they can count. They’re been pushed to their limits and aren’t sure how much more they can handle. Remember, you’re not alone in your stress because others are right there with you. But that doesn’t mean it’s the way it should stay. Here are some zodiacs who need to stop being so hard on themselves this November:
You have huge goals that you’re set on accomplishing — but you shouldn’t tear yourself apart to get there. It’s important to challenge yourself from time to time, but that doesn’t mean putting yourself in situations that make you miserable. Remember, you are allowed to slow down when you start feeling yourself fall apart. Treat yourself gently because you are only going to make things worse by pushing yourself to the point of exhaustion. Once you burn out, you won’t get anything done so it’s smarter to pace yourself. You’ll see more success if you take good care of your mind and body, and you’ll feel better emotionally too.
Stop treating yourself like a punching bag because the world doesn’t revolve around you. It’s not automatically your fault when things go wrong. And people aren’t necessarily mad at you when you notice a change in tone or their behavior. Some things are beyond your control. You could have ‘failed’ for a reason that has nothing to do with you. You could have heard a snippy comment from a coworker or friend because they’re going through a struggle they haven’t mentioned to you yet. Stop assuming you’re the problem. And stop hanging around with people who treat you like the problem. You’re doing so much better than you’ve been giving yourself credit for, so stop being so hard on yourself this month.
You can’t put a million things on your plate, then be upset with yourself for failing to finish everything. You’re only human. You can’t possibly take on that much at once without crumbling under the pressure. Moving forward, be careful about how much you say yes to at once because you can’t do everything for everyone. You have to say no every once in a while. You have to prioritize what matters the most and forget the rest. There are only twenty-four hours in a day and you can’t change that. But you can change how much you set out to do in a day. The rest of this month, lighten your load so you’re not so stressed. Stop expecting yourself to do so much in so little time.
You’re worried that treating yourself gently will result in laziness, which is why you’re always so hard on yourself. But you can’t worry more about productivity than your mental health. You need to start treating yourself nicer. You need to pamper yourself when you’re feeling stressed. You need to do what is best for your body and mind, not for your wallet and reputation. Even though your dreams are important and you should be proud of yourself for trying to reach them, don’t overextend yourself. Don’t push yourself too hard in the name of success. Give yourself breaks. Give yourself the love and respect you deserve.