All you need is love, right? Some of us have already found the one. We bask in the warm light of their love every day, and life is so much better for it. Not everyone can be so lucky, though. The following four zodiac signs haven’t yet found their perfect partner, but oh, they are getting so much closer this month. In November, Aries, Cancer, Virgo, and Pisces will all be attracting good energy and manifesting the kind of relationships they’ve always wanted. If you’re one of these signs, you’ll be one step closer to finding your soulmate this November.
The problem with having crushes on everyone you meet is that it can be hard to parse out who’s a good catch from those who’d only be best for a fling at most. You move fast with people you like, so you’re often dating a lot of duds. This month, you’ll be so much closer to finding your soulmate if you just slow down a little. Do you like this person because they feel like the one, or just because they complimented your outfit and listened to your funny anecdotes? As you enter the dating space with more intention, you’ll be able to weed out all the riff-raff who would normally monopolize your time.
You have really good intuition. Your gut will tell you when someone shouldn’t be trusted. The problem is that you’re not always listening to your gut instinct. You want to give people “the benefit of the doubt,” but all that does is let people into your life who’ll hurt you or take advantage of your soft heart. This month, if you actually listen to your gut, you’ll be so much closer to finding your soulmate. Your perfect partner won’t be setting off alarm bells–they’ll make you feel warm and complete. And really, shouldn’t you only give your attention and energy to people like that?
So many of your past relationships–the ones you definitely don’t want to emulate as you move ahead–ended up with you feeling like you were invisible. Those exes didn’t really see you. Your perfect partner will notice the big and little things that coalesce into who you are. They’ll see when you’re working hard, what you do for your home and the people around you. They’ll notice when you feel stressed and need help without having to ask. As you move through November, keep an eye out for the “noticers,” the empathetic ones who can sense the energies of the people around them. You’ll find your soulmate among them.
While you might be bold in many areas of your life, making moves on people you like isn’t one of them. You’ll crush on someone for months or years until they either make the first move or your feelings fizzle out. It’s understandable that you’d be hesitant to tell them how you feel–it can be scary to take that kind of chance. But you’re also doing yourself a disservice if you never try. This month, you’ll be one step closer to finding your soulmate if you start becoming an active participant in the dating process. Meet people, flirt with them, and make a move. Otherwise, you might miss someone special.