All people are different, so they express their feelings differently, choose to live a certain way, and fall in love faster or harder.
Aries(March 21 – April 20)
You love speed and you live your life that way.
What you value most is your independence and your space. You are not afraid to be alone, you even work the best way. You are selfish and self-sufficient, so you feel that you do not have time and energy for others. One of your biggest fears when it comes to love is not only the risk of being held back, but also that it will take away your freedom. The truth is that you like to love, but you want a secure relationship that gives you the freedom to travel, and from experience, this has not really happened. Lack of time alone has led you to break up and get out of relationships in the past. You’re afraid of losing your strength again now. You are so afraid of allowing someone to enter your world and change your routine and lifestyle!
Taurus(April 21 – May 21)
You are stubborn and set on your own ideas.
You hate change, in fact, you’re really scared of it. The comfort zone is the biggest barrier to privacy and you don’t let anyone see what’s hiding inside you. These are the walls that people see when they make a mistake and hurt you. Not surprisingly, this is why you tend to build fortresses to prevent love from entering your world. The thing you are most afraid of is losing your independence. You haven’t relied on anyone but yourself for so long, so you don’t want to feel like you’re dependent on anyone. You are afraid to rely on a person and then be abandoned.
Gemini(May 22 – June 21)
You are unpredictable, the only thing predictable about you is that you are constantly changing your mind.
And an exaggerated curiosity about everything in life. You are afraid of love because of the fear of feeling limited in some way. You are a sign of a troubled air, which tends to live its life in a hurry. You like to keep your options open and a relationship scares you because you’re constantly wondering if that’s the right person for you. Part of you is scared because you know you’re always wondering what it would be like. You are also constantly worried that you will lose interest in the person you think you are in love with.
Cancer(June 22 – July 21)
You are the most caring and affectionate zodiac sign.
You care a lot about others, and you’re not afraid to show your feelings to the world. You love people too much and get involved in relationships without thinking that you could be hurt. You are loyal and dedicated, even if you have been attracted to selfish or toxic partners. In the past, you made unhealthy compromises for the sake of a relationship or sacrificed yourself in the name of love, but you ended up hurt. You don’t want that pain to come back and disappoint you again. You’re afraid of love because you don’t want to feel unappreciated. You put your heart on the table when you love and you are afraid that you will only get indifference in return. You are afraid of the consequences that may come with a lack of reciprocity on the part of your life partner.
Leo(July 22 – August 22)
You are a romantic and a partner who expresses his feelings very openly, so it is no wonder that you love everything that has to do with love.
It is one of your passions, you like to be in love and talk about love. However, finding the right person for you is quite difficult. You are afraid of love because you are afraid of disappointment. You are so picky when it comes to choosing your partners and you have such high standards that you are afraid of getting involved in the wrong person. It’s not necessarily a bad thing, but you’re exaggerating to the point where you’re out of luck. You feel more comfortable giving than receiving, but you need someone just like you. You are not at all interested in gifts, but in affection and emotional connection. You are afraid that your needs will not be met and you know that this will cause you to get out of a relationship as quickly as you entered.
Virgo(August 23 – September 22)
You allow people to see only what you want them to see.
You have protective walls and you are an expert at hiding things about yourself. You do this to feel dignified and beautiful. This inferiority complex comes from your extremely critical and analytical nature. Yes, you are a difficult person for others. You are too aware of your own flaws and shortcomings. The struggle for perfection prevents you from realizing how worthy you are of love. Because of this, you are very afraid that someone might really deserve you.
Libra(September 23 – October 22)
The fact that you are undecided and the fear of being alone can push you into fleeting relationships, even though in reality you would like something stable.
You are another sign that you are dreaming of true love and that your priority in life is to find a compatible partner. You want a deep and important relationship, you are not content with anything less when it comes to love. The love you dream of involves total submission of body, mind, and soul. You want to have this kind of love, but at the same time, you are afraid that it will not be real. You are too aware of your own flaws and mistakes, and that is because you are very concerned about how you are perceived. You are charming, you like to talk and smile, but you are afraid to show more than what is on the surface. Intimacy scares you because you don’t want to get into the messy realm of emotions. You talk a lot without revealing too much.
Scorpio(October 23 – November 21)
It is no secret that the fear of love is caused by betrayal.
Usually, you don’t trust people and suspect anyone, especially those close to you. This fear is deeper than you can see, it is accompanied by the fear of being rejected or abandoned. The thing you’re most scared of, even more than betrayal, is discovery. You expect others to be completely honest with you, but you only show a part of yourself. You seem friendly and open, but in reality, you are reserved and reluctant. Although you seem calm and cold, you hide so many feelings in your soul. You are afraid of love because you are afraid to show your true self to the wrong person. When you open up, you want it to be for life.
Sagittarius(November 22 – December 21)
You are energetic and curious and have a crazy zest for life.
You want more of an intense experience and adventure than love. For you, a boring life means you don’t live at all. You are afraid to fall in love because you are afraid that you will get bored or that you will be boring. You want to have passion and emotion every day and you are afraid that the routine could take over you. You are forever alone because you feel the need to keep your freedom. It scares you to stay in one place for too long.
Capricorn(December 22 – January 19)
You have amazing self-control, you are responsible, focused, and disciplined.
You are afraid to fall in love because the idea itself is just reckless and unpredictable. You need to analyze and have a plan. Love can be uncertain, so be very careful. You don’t want to leave anyone in your life just to destroy you or make you lose control. You hate not being able to succeed in life. You’re realistic, you don’t compromise too much, and you see love as an investment. An investment of your efforts, your time, your money. To do so would be a waste because you would feel exploited and exhausted.
Aquarius(January 20 – February 18)
You need time alone and you need freedom.
You are afraid of love because you do not want to feel limited or constrained. You are loyal and fully involved when you fall in love. You give all your attention and independence to your partner and you are very possessive, but you are afraid that you will not receive the same in return. You are an idealist who hopes for true love, but you have that power of emotional distancing that you use to maintain your independence. Thus, you become prone to casual relationships. This does not mean that you do not want a serious relationship, but it scares you that you will not find the ideal person who understands how much you value individuality.
Pisces(February 19 – March 20)
You’re afraid people won’t take advantage of you.
You are selfless and you help people without expecting anything in return. You are incredibly permissive and value the idea of helping others more than love. You often feel drawn to weak and wounded souls, because then you feel the need to save them. Most of the time, you will end up feeling used. You’re afraid to fall in love because you don’t want to go through this again. In the past, you fell in love too easily and ended up disappointed.