We often make our lives difficult.
We cannot blame someone else when we put ourselves in the worst and most unpleasant situations.
When we choose the hard way, when we fall into the trap of negative thinking, when we are content with little or let ourselves be dominated by unrealistic fears or ambitions, we turn our life into torment. Each sign is able to unnecessarily complicate its existence. Here’s why:
You fall prey to negativism. Temperament and stubbornness will give you a lot of fork. Sometimes you find yourself in a negative world where those around you do not want to enter.
You don’t live life to the fullest. You feel the need to control everything and everyone in your life. And when things don’t go the way you plan, you take care of the ones you care about the most. The hardest thing to understand is that you can’t control people, and things don’t always work out in your favor. Learn to get used to it. The unexpected makes life more interesting.
You give in to escape faster. You give in to love because you don’t know what you want. You give up in life because you are afraid of change. You give up in your career because you got used to something that doesn’t make you happy. That is why you end up hurting others, because you are indecisive about your life and you tend to attract others into your confusion and suffering.
You put others before you. You live in an emotional carousel and you don’t know how to treat others. Sometimes, when you think you’ve met the right person, you put them in front of you and pay more attention than necessary. It’s easy to get lost in love, so be careful not to lose yourself!
You shut yourself in and hide your emotions. You think that accepting vulnerability is a sign of weakness. You pretend you don’t care and you can’t be touched. But if you leave emotions in the background, be careful not to get too close to yourself, because at some point you may be overwhelmed with loneliness. Remember, it’s not the emotions that make you look weaker, it’s the fact that you pretend you don’t have them.
You’re too unfair to yourself. You tend to put others before you. Others admire you for being nice, but over time, your self-esteem deteriorates. You are the first to be criticized and highlight your weaknesses without some help to develop. You are your biggest enemy and also the only solution to solve this.
You try too hard to please others and don’t ask for what you want. No matter how nice and appreciated you are, people use you and pursue their interests. You ignore your emotions by trying to be selfish, but then you become unbearable. Sometimes you hurt those you love the most because you repress your emotions and don’t face your problems.
You think you don’t deserve to be loved and you’re better off alone. You are extremely stubborn and do not forgive easily. Your heart is not easy to conquer, but whoever succeeds will have a lifetime of your love and loyalty. Your biggest weakness is that you are a little selfish and hurt those who care about you in an attempt to always be in 1st place.
You’re too scared. You are afraid that you will fail, that you will not succeed in anything and that you will be stuck in the same place. Sometimes you have a lot of great ideas, other times you get lost in them and you don’t use them. Take them one at a time and focus on each one so you can move forward.
You think you are in competition with others to get somewhere. Wrong: You put too much pressure on yourself instead of enjoying life. You are incredibly tough on yourself and sometimes too angry. Always on the run, you always have something to do, but you must not forget to leave it easier and enjoy life a little. Otherwise you will miss the things that are more important than the goals.
Let the past influence your life. You tend to keep everything to yourself and you are your worst enemy. Do not forgive yourself for the mistakes of the past and allow them to dictate your future by carrying an unnecessary burden. You dispense with good people because you are convinced that you do better on your own.
You choose the wrong people. You are attracted to people and toxic habits. You are the most hearty sign, but you tend to gravitate around the wrong people – such people squeeze your energy. As for habits, you choose the bad ones to control your suffering. You hurt yourself because you think you deserve to suffer.