Some months go by in a blur while others stay cemented in your life for a long, long time. For some zodiacs, December is going to be a month that changes their life, for better or worse. Here are a few zodiacs who are going to have an important conversation this December:
Even though you aren’t a fan of confrontation, you should know the importance of open communication. You should remember that bringing up your complaints and concerns isn’t inherently a negative thing. In fact, being open about your thoughts and experiences can pave the way for a healthier, stronger relationship. So this December, make sure that you stay transparent about your emotions. Don’t lock them away because you’re worried about hurting someone important to you or becoming an inconvenience. When the time comes for an important conversation, embrace the opportunity. Don’t let it pass you by because as painful as this discussion may feel at first, it could ultimately bring you closer together. It doesn’t have to rip you apart – but even if it does, maybe that was what was meant to happen.
You need to stop procrastinating. Stop putting off the inevitable. You know that this conversation needs to happen, so don’t put it off for any longer. Don’t make any more excuses about why you have been waiting and waiting. After all, you’ve already been stressing about this conversation. You’ve already been thinking about it in the shower and late at night when you’re supposed to be sleeping. Even though you don’t want to deal with it, you need to be courageous. You need to start the discussion because you’re going to feel better once everything is out in the open. This December, make sure you rip off that bandage that you’ve been letting fester. Don’t hold it all inside anymore.
You’re a people pleaser at heart. You’re used to suffering in silence because you don’t want to bother anyone with your pesky feelings. But those feelings matter. You would never want your loved ones to bottle up their emotions, to hide their truth from you – so why are you going to force yourself to do the same? Give yourself the same grace you give everyone else. After all, the people who genuinely care about you aren’t going to run the other way when you get real with them. They are going to be there to support you. And if they refuse to support you the way you have always done for them in the past, it’s proof that the relationship is one-sided. It’s an indication that you don’t need them anyway.
You’re strong and independent, but that doesn’t mean you can fix everything on your own. You can’t keep pretending everything is perfectly fine when you’re secretly trying to hold the whole world on your shoulders. It’s okay to admit that you need help. It’s okay to vent about what’s been bothering you. This December, you need to have an important conversation with someone close to you. You need to be truthful with them about what you’ve been experiencing because it’s time to stop going through this alone.