You’ve had a tough few years when it comes to dating and finding love, mainly because you were indecisive and you didn’t know if you were ready for love, but the stars are finally aligning in your favor and you’re now more sure of what you want and what you’re looking for. You’ve realized that life is too short to hold back or repress your feelings, and you have decided that the next time you meet someone you like, you will go for it with all your heart, even if you’re not fully ready, because you want to share your life with someone and you want a consistent and secure relationship as opposed to all your flings. This is your year to find the one—if you haven’t already.
You have followed your heart in the past without using your brain at all, and that kept you stuck in many situationships, love triangles, and one-sided relationships because you don’t give up on people, no matter how many times they’ve disappointed you or let you down. You still believe that there’s light at the end of the tunnel; however, you’ve discovered that you’re only hurting yourself by staying in these unfulfilling relationships and you’ve decided that you will start using your mind more while still following your heart, but now you know when to draw the line and when to walk away from people who are not giving you what you deserve or what you want. This is your year to find a healthy relationship with mutual love, respect, and effort.
You have been stuck on your ex or someone unattainable for years now and you have kept yourself busy to avoid dealing with your feelings or confronting that person. You have also rejected so many people just because you were waiting for that one person who was constantly in and out of your life. Now you are finally releasing the past and this person’s unsure energy and you’re emotionally more available to be with someone new. You wasted enough time waiting for someone to change, and now you’re no longer stuck or waiting. You have finally decided to put yourself first. This is your year to find someone who is sure about you and chooses you.
You have avoided commitment for the past few years because you were exploring yourself and the world or focusing on your career and your own personal development. You have worked on yourself and improved in so many ways. You have healed old childhood wounds and mended your broken heart; you actually feel like your ‘best self’ now and that means you are willing to show up as the best version of yourself. You have raised your vibrations, which is why you will attract someone better and build much stronger relationships and connections. This is your year to dedicate some time to love because you will be attracting tons of it.
You haven’t been making the right decisions when it comes to love and you have a reputation of attracting the ‘wrong’ people that it has become a pattern you’re unwilling to change. You’re always falling for people in complicated situations or people who just aren’t ready to give you what you’re looking for, and you keep fighting to make it work but you got tired of fighting alone. You now believe that harder doesn’t mean better, especially when it comes to attraction and love. You’re looking for more effortless connections and people who make love easy and fun. You’re no longer carrying the weight of all those heavy relationship burdens, so you’re no longer bringing your past insecurities to new relationships. This is your year to start over with a new perspective on love, and that will automatically bring the ‘right’ people into your life.