Find out what mistake you don’t realize you’re making in love and how it can destroy your relationship!
Aries(March 21 – April 20)
You feel that you deserve everything.
You are strong and have no problem thriving independently, but this trait can sometimes backfire.
You handle yourself as a leader, which is great, but sometimes in bad relationships, you end up treating your partner like a follower.
A healthy relationship doesn’t mean that one person dominates the conversation, nor does it mean that your partner is always your biggest fan.
By treating your partner as someone you know is always there to meet your every need, you’ll end up alienating them. Realize that you don’t deserve everything and do your best to treat him the way he wants and deserves.
Taurus(April 21 – May 21)
You lose yourself in.
Everyone has heard that Tauruses are super stubborn, but people don’t always realize that your resistance to change extends to your feelings.
Taurus is stable, they long for peace and harmony. The drama just stresses you out. But when you don’t face your thoughts and feelings head-on, your partner can become desperate because you’re bottling it up, even to the point of exploding and throwing a tantrum.
All you are doing is avoiding a difficult but necessary conversation, which will upset your partner quite badly and maybe even lead to a breakup. So open up, and you can do it!
Gemini(May 22 – June 21)
You end the relationship before it’s over.
As a rule, Geminis tend to run away rather than face their feelings. Geminis are famous for doing this repeatedly, but they don’t look back for a moment to notice it.
Even if you like your relationships to be fun and playful, you add a little drama as soon as you hit any roadblocks.
It doesn’t mean you’re comfortable or afraid of serious commitment, but you tend to see a disagreement as the end of a relationship.
You don’t have to run away, some of the most rewarding things in love take a lot of work.
Cancer(June 22 – July 21)
You lose your identity.
Getting into the heart of a Cancer is a beautiful thing, especially since you have to break through their very hard shell to gain their trust first. But when it gets to that point, you don’t just open up a little bit, you tear down the gates.
However, this level of codependency and relinquishment of personal boundaries can be dangerous because you lose your own identity in favor of the identity of the relationship.
It’s no longer about what you like, your friends, your goals, or even your favorite foods, now it’s all about what your partner likes.
If your friends tell you that you’re acting different since you’re dating, well, that’s what I’m talking about.
Keep your identity, it’s what made you special in the first place!
Leo(July 22 – August 22)
You load your partner with everything you have in your heart.
You burn as hot as the Sun and you love it! You usually keep your chin up because you don’t like anyone to see you down, but when life gets tough, you turn private and pour your heart out to your partner.
You can’t keep your feelings to yourself because you like drama. However, you must remember that your partner is not a sponge that absorbs everything, he has a threshold, a limit, even if he loves you to the moon and back.
He also has a lot of issues, responsibilities, and feelings to deal with, even if he doesn’t bring them up as you do.
Stop treating your boyfriend or husband like emotional garbage.
Virgo(August 23 – September 22)
You try to change people.
When you first start dating someone, you like who they are, but over time you notice little patterns, habits, quirks, expressions, or behaviors that annoy you.
When you give advice, that is, give constructive criticism, you only want to improve your partner’s life. But honestly, sometimes he just wants to do things his way.
So how about accepting him as he is, letting him evolve as he goes, without imagining who he might become?
Libra(September 23 – October 22)
You can be a little passive-aggressive.
You have the most beautiful (fake) smile in the zodiac. This is not because you are not honest, but because you prefer to stay positive even when you disagree with something.
Everything is great until your partner goes way overboard. Then your fake smile starts to disappear, you start shaking and you’re ready to turn from angel to demon in seconds.
You’re trying to act nice, but you’re throwing passive-aggressive daggers at every turn. And until your attitude changes everything that gets on your nerves, you’ll be constantly angry about every little thing that annoys you.
So try to get out of that cage and communicate!
Scorpio(October 23 – November 21)
You are creating drama instead of working as a team.
All or nothing, high or low, peace or war, you are a creature of extremes. Although you can direct this intensity towards your goals, there is a significant chance that when you are unhappy about something, you will lash out at the world around you.
Your bad mood extends to those who do not fault their own. If your lover or husband expresses his opinion or tries to help you, to calm you down, you immediately change.
This storm will cause you to drop bombs like you’re not in a relationship, not even on a team, but like they’re your enemy.
This 0 to 100 mentality is just a defense mechanism. Take a deep breath and channel that lightning into something constructive!
Sagittarius(November 22 – December 21)
You are not honest about how you feel.
Life is fun and games to you, and if it’s not, you’d rather retire. Your fears, feelings, and dreams, most of the time you don’t share them unless they are positive.
When any tension arises between you and your partner, you may keep it cool and not discuss it…but then share all the intimate details with your girlfriends.
You gossip with your girlfriends about relationship problems, and you can’t resist not doing it, but you resist and run away from confrontation with your boyfriend or husband.
It’s a big mistake because all the other people’s opinions start swimming in your head and you’re already one foot in and one foot out in the relationship. Meanwhile, your partner has no idea what’s going on.
The only way to fix this is, to be honest, and vulnerable and talk to him!
Capricorn(December 22 – January 19)
You expect everyone to hurt you eventually.
You thrive as part of a strong couple. You have no problem putting effort into building a life together. That is until your inner pessimism starts to surface.
Before you know it, you start complaining about life, then other people, and finally your partner.
Your pessimistic side is just a defense mechanism because it scares you that something won’t work out in the end.
Erase that mood. Don’t push people away from you. Remember that you are worthy of love and not every relationship ends with a broken heart.
Aquarius(January 20 – February 18)
You always have to win.
Yes, you’re super smart, but relationships aren’t a competition. You can’t control things or people just because you’re afraid of change.
Instead of compromising and teaming up with your partner, you turn every little disagreement into a real battle about who’s right.
And while this might make you feel great at the moment, it also ends up making your partner feel defeated.
Love is not about who wins. It’s about opening your heart and giving, regardless of who wins the debate.
Pisces(February 19 – March 20)
You sacrifice parts of yourself for the relationship.
When it comes to love, you want to be a princess in a fairy tale. This can cause you to sometimes overlook red flags in your relationship.
Yes, many times you will sacrifice parts of yourself just to keep the relationship going. Sure, we all have quirks or vices, but when you start giving up on some of your hobbies, friends, or dreams, that’s not a relationship.
You are meant to shine and live vibrantly, don’t forget that!