What camp do you belong to?
It’s a feeling you know all too well, and you often wonder, “Do I hate myself?” Did I do something wrong to them? I certainly hate myself, they have every reason in the world to do it. I should lock myself in the house because I’m constantly destroying everything. ” Are you familiar with this monologue?
Sometimes we all go through this and care a little more about what others think. Everything from clothing to professional positions, you know that people judge what you do and that really scares you. But you shouldn’t!
You know best what works best for you. If you really like those high-heeled boots that your sister insists are horrible, wear them anyway. If you truly believe that the decisions you make at work are good, go ahead with them. The power is over you!
It can be hard to tolerate the harsh oppositions of others, and while constructive criticism is important in any situation, you know when you take their opinions too seriously.
4 signs that care too much about the opinion of others:
You are very gentle and affectionate and you like to be sociable, but with that comes even more emotion and comparison to others.
You hate being alone, especially because you have to be reassured by other people that you are doing a good job. You need to validate others.
Because you are so affectionate, you expect the same thing in return. When you don’t receive it, you immediately assume that those people are thinking something bad about you.
When you are not your loving and gentle version, you can take things very seriously. When you ask for someone’s opinion, you put it in your heart.
You choose your words carefully and expect the same from others. Don’t take other people’s thoughts more seriously than your own!
You don’t really trust yourself, but try to follow your heart from time to time and you can get to a better place than you thought.
Although you are usually a very balanced person, the opinions of others affect you. You can be quite shy and this is especially true because you can be extremely critical of yourself and others.
You know what it’s like to worry and focus on other people’s details, so you assume that everyone else is doing the same thing to you.
Sometimes you work incessantly and don’t play for a moment, so when someone criticizes your work, you really put everything to heart. It’s more than just a word, it’s something you’ll think about for days on end.
Indeed, the way you care about others is also the one that causes you anxiety and shyness. Try to focus on yourself, take things easy, and don’t worry about what others are doing.
Criticism is a two-way street and it will be a much smoother journey once you add a little compassion.
Being around people is very important to you. You hate being alone, so in turn, you find yourself surrounded by a lot of different opinions.
This is usually well tolerated by you because you are peaceful and fair. But, from time to time, someone tells you something that really affects you.
You can be resentful because of other people’s words, and that’s just because you hate confrontation and avoid it at all costs.
The problem is that the only person you really hurt is yourself and you tend to cry for pity after a while.
Take a step back, reflect on the criticisms, and you can find some helpful tips to be able to tell the difference between what you need to hear and what will hurt you in the long run.
You are one of the most emotional and sensitive zodiac signs, which is not a bad thing at all, but that means you care too much about other people’s opinions and are very affected by their words or gestures.
Sometimes you play the role of a victim and it is difficult for others to confront you. You hate when people disagree with you, and that can sometimes cloud your judgment about a particular situation.
You do this mainly because you want everyone to like you and it is really just a sign of your insecurities. We all receive criticism, but you let them affect your relationship.
Remember that the people who love you are on your side! Most likely they say things out of love and for your own good, otherwise they shouldn’t be part of your life!