The abandonment. The reason you don’t want to get tied up is because you’re afraid that someone you trust will turn their back on you and leave you.
A broken heart isn’t something you deal with particularly well, which is surprising because you deal with almost anything that comes your way.
You might not even be aware of this hidden fear that you have, but that is definitely the reason why you are the first to break up and run away as soon as it smacks of trouble.
Change. You are a person who likes to plan everything. You like to know what’s to come in order to prepare yourself for any possible situation.
When something suddenly happens or when something changes, you can’t cope with it.
You’re used to being in the driver’s seat, and when things get out of hand, you get lost. And this is your greatest fear.
The insufficiency. You are the king of over-thinking. You manage to turn every little problem into something serious because of your imagination. While the biggest problem comes from you.
Whatever challenge you face, you start by thinking that you are not good enough. Basically, you sabotage yourself before you even start.
It is exactly that poisonous thought that is keeping you from being successful.
Impotence. Usually, your emotions take over, making you helpless. There are things happening that are beyond your control.
And no matter how hard you try to go back, the emotions won’t let you.
This lack of control drives you crazy, but there is nothing you can do about it, because your emotional side has always been much stronger than your rational side.
The future. At the moment, you are doing very well, maybe even more than well. You have everything in hand, you are the star of your life, the first in the queue.
This situation is what you aspire to and what makes you happy.
But what the future holds is unknown and it terrifies you.
You are afraid that whatever you currently have may disappear like smoke.
Intimacy. On the one hand, you are unhappy when you are alone, and on the other hand, you cannot be someone because you are unable to relax and open up to this. anybody.
It’s hard for you to be vulnerable and honest with anyone.
This closeness is what scares you the most and, the best thing is, it’s also the thing that you miss the most. When you think about it, you yourself are sabotaging your happiness.
Socialization. Some would argue that this is absolutely not true as parties are extremely social and friendly. And that’s right, you can be friends with anyone; it is not a problem for you.
But what scares you the most is not being able to find someone like you.
You’re afraid to socialize if things go wrong. Finally, you are a lovely person and there is nothing not to like about you, but there will be someone from time to time who does not like your cheerful personality and that is it. normal.
Heartache. No one could guess this secret fear, could they? You seem so fierce and fearless from the outside.
Seems like nothing can hurt or touch you, but what a lot of people ignore is that you are incredibly emotional and fragile.
When you fall in love, you want it to be real, real love, and you behave that way.
Whatever you have you give away in your relationship, and so, naturally, it’s heartache that scares you the most.
The jugement. It is very important to you that people think the best of you.
You don’t want to make the wrong choice in front of anyone because it will lead to judgment. This is something you are most afraid of.
This is why you can sometimes appear cold and distant from others – but only because you don’t want to say or do anything bad to give them a reason to judge you.
Failure. This is not so shocking, everyone knows you are a hardworking and persevering person.
Nothing and no one can stop you from making your dreams come true and reaching your goals.
Since your success rate is so good, your biggest fear is failure.
Imagine the inability to complete something you have started. Oh, what a horror!
The rejection. How can someone not like you? How can someone say no to your adorable face? This is the reason why you are still single.
Also, sometimes it is difficult to explain your overly rational mind, so as not to get rejected by others once they have had to do with you.
Maybe it’s due to your experience so far, or maybe it’s the way you see the world. One thing is certain: you are afraid of being rejected.
The commitment. You are deeply in touch with your emotional side. Spirituality is very important to you and basically you don’t value anything material.
You would be happier if you had someone to love you, but who would love you exactly as you want to be loved.
This is your biggest fault. You don’t want to get tied up if things don’t turn out the way you want them to. Unfortunately, you can’t teach someone how to love you.
You don’t live in a world that you created on your own. You’re here with everyone, so stick with that and open up your horizons a little bit more.