What’s your biggest mistake, the one you make in almost every romantic relationship, maybe even without realizing it?
What’s that thing you should stop doing immediately if you want to reconnect with a healthier love life?
Well, it all depends on which zodiac sign you belong to!
Fall for the wrong people
In your dating life, your biggest mistake is not following your gut when it tells you whether or not you should open up to this or that person.
Once you like someone, you jump right in, without even thinking about their flaws or the potential negative consequences your relationship could have.
As a result, you end up in pain, because you keep falling for toxic people who are harming you.
To prevent this from happening again, you need to be a little more careful about who you decide to give your heart to.
Settle for less than you deserve
If you belong to this astrological sign, it is very difficult for you to realize your own worth.
Even though it’s something you refuse to admit, deep down you don’t trust yourself and feel good enough about yourself.
As a result, you often settle for less than you deserve.
You are used to accepting poor behavior from your partners, not knowing that you are entitled to much better.
Don’t be afraid to seek out someone who treats you with love and kindness.
Don’t lose your faith, there’s someone like that out there somewhere.
Get bored too easily
Let’s be honest – we all love the honeymoon phase of a new relationship.
It is the period of butterflies and passion; the period when everything looks better than it really is.
But, you fail to understand that this phase cannot last forever.
If you want a happier love life, you need to stop getting bored so easily and ending relationships as soon as they aren’t as exciting as you would like them to be.
Give too much of yourself
If you belong to this sign, your ability to feel love and compassion for others is immense.
But that doesn’t mean that all relationships deserve such involvement.
You need to stop being the one making the effort and the only one fighting, when the other person couldn’t care less about where your relationship is going.
Be smart and stop giving so much of yourself when you don’t get anything in return.
Be afraid of love
Unlike Cancer, you tend to be overly cautious, especially in love.
Your ego is so big that you can’t stand the thought of someone breaking your heart.
But being afraid of love won’t get you anywhere, because some people deserve you to take risks.
Don’t get me wrong – I can’t promise you won’t suffer, but after all, it’s part of life.
Trying to change your partner
If you belong to this sign, one of your biggest mistakes in love is falling for someone’s potential.
When you meet someone, you see it as a project in need of improvement and you tell yourself that no one is better suited for such a task than you!
It’s normal that there are things you don’t like about your partner, but that doesn’t mean you have the right to change them.
If you cannot come to terms with someone for who they are, walk away while there is still time and save both of you a lot of pain.
Too high expectations
Remember that you are not perfect either, and you will never find someone who meets all of your criteria.
Rather than pulling yourself out of your relationships at the first disagreement, try to compromise for once.
Try to come to terms with your partner’s imperfections and see where that takes you.
Tell yourself that every relationship is the right one
Not all relationships are meant to last forever, and not all people are right for you.
Some are only there to teach us a lesson and that’s fine!
It is something that you have to accept. You need to stop idealizing all of your relationships from the start and hoping they last forever, before you even get to know each other.
Besides making you look desperate, it also makes your breakups much more painful than they should be.
Carry your emotional baggage
If you belong to this sign, the thing you should stop doing in your relationships is hang on to your past.
Your emotional baggage is nothing more than a huge burden that weighs on you more than you realize.
So, please accept the fact that you cannot change the past and stop thinking about everything you could have or should have had.
Instead, learn to forget and let go of it all.
Turn all your attention to your partner
Whenever you fall in love, you cease to exist as an individual, because you are turning all of your attention to your partner.
I know you can be crazy with love and then want to spend all your time with this person but please try not to get lost along the way.
Remember to always love yourself more than anyone else.
Don’t worry – making yourself a priority isn’t selfish – it will just make your partner respect you more.
Hide your true feelings
I don’t know if you’re afraid to reveal your feelings to others or to accept them on your own, but the truth is, you’ve gotten into the habit of hiding your feelings when you’re in a relationship.
You restrain yourself too much and this causes your partner to feel unloved and unwanted, even if you are anything but indifferent.
That doesn’t mean you have to go forward with an open heart, but if you want a healthy relationship, you need to learn to relax and express yourself.
Having a partner who feels emotionally neglected is not going to get you anywhere.
Trying to save your partner
Your love cannot save people unless they decide for themselves!
You can’t save those who don’t want to be!
The sooner you accept it and stop wasting your energy trying to heal those who cannot, the better for you.