Have you ever been in the unfortunate position of being in a relationship that everyone seems to hate?
Have you ever been to a “Romeo and Juliet” story where everyone seems to be against your relationship?
Have you ever had a romance that was all about the two of you versus the world?
Are you going through an experience like this and feeling lost? Do you feel like you don’t know what to do?
If so, then this post is for you. After reading it, you will have a better perspective of things and a clearer picture of which direction your relationship should take.
When you fall in love with someone, it is a very personal and intimate process. And so of course you should always have the last word when it comes to what you want to do with your love.
Nobody else is allowed to tell you who to fall in love with or how to fall in love.
You always have to have your own way in love and in life.
However, you also know that love can betray you. You know that love can be very dangerous if you let yourself into it blindly; and that’s why you ask the people around you for advice and opinion.
You always want to hear the opinions of the people who are most important to you, because you know that they always stand behind you and want the best for you. But how do you find the balance?
What if your heart tells you one thing and your friends tell you another? What if what you really want is something your friends tell you is bad for you?
That’s the dilemma here. And that’s what this post is going to try to answer.
Yes, you should always listen to what your loved ones think about your love life. You can’t be so naive and thoughtless that you think you will ALWAYS get it right on your own. You can’t be so confident.
But there will also be times when you just have to get your way and act on your own feelings – especially when you know deep down in your heart that what you are doing is right for you.
After all, it is you who have to live with the effects of your decision. It’s you who have to fight and toil to make the relationship work.
It is you who has to go through everything and do everything to make sure love is not lost. And therefore it is also right that you stand up for what you believe in.
It is right that you fight for your love. But how exactly do you know if you even have a love that is worth fighting for?
Well, that’s what this post is going to help you find out. If most of the signs listed here apply to your partner, it is likely that you are soul mates and that you simply need to push aside all outside influences.
8 signs your partner is right for you, even if everyone says otherwise
1. Your partner is always there when you need them.
You have a partner who is always there for you when you are in need; who is there whether you ask him or not.
2. You and your partner have similar moral values and principles.
You are both compatible in the sense that you share the same essential principles and moral values in life.
3. Your partner goes out of his way to make your friends like him.
It’s not always a good combination; but when he tries, that’s always a good sign to look out for.
4. Your partner has very high demands on himself.
You have a partner who will never settle for mediocrity; someone who always wants to exceed their own expectations.
5. You don’t ignore the weaknesses and negative sides.
You know you don’t have a perfect relationship; and you perceive all of your partner’s flaws that he has.
6. Your partner motivates you to pursue all of your dreams.
You have someone who really drives you to be successful; someone who encourages you to be your own person and pursue the life you want.
7. Your partner inspires you to be a better person.
You have a partner who gives you a sense of purpose; a drive to want to be a better person.
8. Your instincts tell you this is the right relationship for you.
At the end of the day, your instincts should be able to ignore all of the outside voices. If your partner tells you they mean business, they mean it too.