Love is a beautiful thing to experience and have in your life, and if you can also be in a happy, healthy relationship, then you are one of the lucky ones. But sometimes every relationship doesn’t work out, no matter how much you want it to, and it can be painfully difficult to break away from. Sometimes you just can’t let go of the person you loved with all your heart, and it hurts immensely.
Sometimes you can feel like this is not the person you should be with. Or, over time, the two of you have moved apart. Whatever the reason, your zodiac sign could be the key to why you can’t let go of your partner and your relationship.
Here’s why you can’t let go based on your zodiac sign
1. Aries (March 21st – April 19th)
You hate not getting what you want.
It is difficult for Aries to accept that they may not be able to get what they want because they are so used to getting what they want. You will refuse to accept that the relationship is over and keep trying to get it right; to be defeated is something you despise.
Aries always do their best when it comes to anything, especially relationships, and when they find things aren’t working out, they find it hard to accept. You’re always used to getting what you want and you don’t really know what to do when that can’t happen.
2nd Taurus (April 20th – May 20th)
You feel like a piece of you is missing.
You don’t fall for someone that easily, but when you do, you fall hard. You give everything for the relationship and there is nothing you don’t do to make your partner feel happy and safe. So when your relationship ends you can’t let go because they have become like an integral part of your life and you don’t know what you’re going to do without them.
They are like a vital organ for you, without which you feel that you will not survive. You’re a strong person, but trying to let go of someone you’ve spent so much time with is painfully difficult.
3rd twin (May 21 – June 20)
You hate losing people in your life.
You can’t let go because you hate the idea of losing someone in your life, even if they’ve treated you very badly. Geminis are social people, and the more people they have in their life, the happier they will be. You always try to keep everyone in your life and do your best to be on good terms with them.
So when a relationship ends and someone leaves your life, you don’t know how to deal with it. You try to do everything in your power to bring them back into your life and never lose them.
4. CANCER (June 21 – July 22)
You don’t like unhappy endings.
CANCER is the most emotional zodiac sign for it you’ve ever met. Therefore breakups and any kind of unhappy endings will naturally destroy them. You hate breaking up with the one you love, and you find it extremely painful to give up the relationship you’ve had over all these years. Love for you is an incredibly important thing and you never took it for granted.
CANCER always fights for the one he loves, sometimes without realizing that he could be better off without him. You always believed in happy endings, so if you don’t get that, you don’t know what to do.
5th Leo (July 23rd – August 22nd)
You should be the one to break up, not the other way around.
Lions are very dominant by nature and they like to always hold the steering wheel. They like to have the last word every time, so when someone breaks up with you, you just don’t accept them. When someone breaks up, you should always be, not the other way around. If you’re not ready to let him go, you will never let him go. Whatever happens is going to happen on your terms, and if you don’t end the relationship, it won’t be the end.
6. VIRGIN (August 23rd – September 22nd)
You find it hard to accept that you made the wrong decision.
VIRGINS are perfectionists and making hasty decisions is not your forte. You see your relationship as a deal that definitely has to go right. When you find yourself on the receiving end of a breakup, you feel amazed why it didn’t work out, even though you put so much effort and time into the relationship.
In your opinion, you can never make the wrong decisions and therefore you try very hard to do things better and get back to normal. You cannot let go because you are not used to failure.
7th Libra (September 23rd – October 22nd)
You find change uncomfortable
Libras would rather stick to the old script and be in an unhappy relationship than be with someone new. Libranians are always trying to fix the broken instead of going on and trying to be with someone else. You can leave the relationship behind if you want, but you are not really coping with change and so you try your best to keep the relationship that you are in.
Laziness and complacency play a big part when you are like this. The whole prospect of getting out there and doing it all over again is exhausting and daunting on you.
8th Scorpio (October 23rd – November 21st)
You don’t like the idea that they’re with someone else.
Scorpios are jealous people, and the mere thought that their loved one is with someone else is enough for them to cope with themselves. They hate to see their ex is in a relationship with someone else and will feel jealous, angry, and scared at the same time. That makes her work hard to bring her back and keep her forever. You feel that you belong to each other and no one is going to love her the way you did.
9th Sagittarius (November 22nd – December 21st)
You will be reminded of them wherever you go.
You can’t let go because everything reminds you of her. No matter where you go and what you do, you will always be reminded of them. When you hang out with your friends, you will find yourself talking about them. When you travel, you will wish they were by your side. When you go shopping, you will want to buy her favorite things for her.
You’re stuck in your head and you’re constantly thinking about what they’re doing, where they’re going, and how they’re doing.
10. Capricorn (December 22nd – January 19th)
You will never find a connection like that again.
You don’t fall for someone so easily because not many people manage to win your heart. So when the relationship is over, you will find it difficult to break away from it because you feel like you can no longer experience that type of connection with someone else.
You tell yourself that what you had with them will never happen again, and therefore you should keep coming back to them. In your mind you know that things will not go back to how they were, but you will try your best anyway.
11. AQUARIUS (January 20th – February 18th)’
You expect everything to be like a fairy tale.
You are someone who believes in fairy tales, happy endings and total perfection. When you’re in a relationship with someone, you expect everything to work out in the end, no matter what. So even if they break up with you, you don’t stress much about it because you feel like she will come to you with a sincere apology and everything will be back to how it was. Unfortunately, real life doesn’t always work that way.
12. Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
You regret sharing your deepest secrets and being vulnerable.
When you go through a breakup, you feel like all of the things you shared with them, including your deepest secrets and vulnerabilities, have been in vain. You don’t just talk to anyone about your feelings; you only do this with people whom you completely trust. The moment you feel that you have a deep emotional bond with someone, you are talking about everything that is in your heart.
So when your relationship ends, you regret the fact that you shared everything with them and still they didn’t stay.