The Most Important Lesson You Must Learn About Love (Based On Your Zodiac Sign)
(March 21st to April 19th)
You can’t save people. You can’t fix or change anyone to make them what you want them to be. That will not do! One can only love them for who they are and hope that they will want to repair and change themselves. You can’t pick up the broken pieces of someone else’s heart and try to just put things back together. You are a healer by nature, but some things need to be healed on their own, difficult as that is for you too. It is time for you to see and accept that.
(April 20th to May 21st)
Not every kiss ends in fireworks. Passion is an incredible thing. But love isn’t always rainbows and butterflies. It’s not always happy, spectacular, and adventurous moments. Sometimes love hurts too. And sometimes it’s a little messy. But love is all that makes it so beautiful. Learn to accept and love someone else’s (or your own) chaos and everything will be a lot easier.
(May 22nd to June 21st)
If you always focus so hard on finding your happiness until the end of your days, you may still be missing out. “The One” is a pipe dream. If you are constantly looking for the perfect person, you will not appreciate all of the wonderful people around you. Stop looking for the perfect and start appreciating who and what you have in front of you right now. The perfect doesn’t exist!
(June 22nd to July 22nd)
It’s perfectly okay to wear your heart on your sleeve, Cancer. If you close yourself off from love, at some point it will break through these walls and find you. Let love into your life. Be vulnerable. You are so empathetic, so show your sensitive side. People will admire your vulnerable nature, and you will find that letting someone else love you isn’t all that scary. Love always wins, never forget that!
(July 23rd to August 22nd)
Not everyone can keep up with your dedication. You love so passionately and you love with everything you have and more. But you have to accept that love is different for everyone. We all love so differently that love cannot be defined in just a few words. It’s different for everyone, and just because someone else doesn’t love the way you do doesn’t mean they are incapable of love. Love is whatever you want – always remember it!
(23 August to 22 September)
Someone’s imperfections can be absolutely imperfect for you. You will never find the perfect person. Love is far from perfect, and that’s the beauty of it. Find someone whose imperfection makes them more beautiful to you. Love him for his flaws and weaknesses and remind him that these imperfections make him unique. We all have flaws and perfection does not exist. Do not forget that.
(September 23 to October 22)
Love is about compromise. It’s all about dedication and setting aside differences so that things can actually work in the relationship. It’s not just about always being right or being fair. There is never a perfect balance. You’ll be on both sides of the spectrum, and that’s okay. Accept this! Love can’t always be 50/50. It’s too unpredictable, spontaneous and bizarre. It’s bigger than we are, so stop controlling it because you can’t control it.
(October 23 to November 22)
Love is about trust. So learn to trust again, not only in others, but also in yourself. Trust yourself the most. As soon as you are able to fully trust your intuition and see where it is leading you, you will be able to place your trust in someone else. If you don’t trust you have nothing.
(November 23rd to December 21st)
If you keep chasing the wrong guy, you’ll end up missing the right one. Putting effort and time into someone who doesn’t stand up for you is wrong. Do not do that! You are awesome. You’re unbelievable. And you deserve a love that will love you back for exactly who you are as a person. Don’t chase love Let her find you when she’s ready. If you keep chasing her, you could settle for the watered down, mediocre version and miss out on the great love that is looking for you.
(December 22nd to January 20th)
Protecting your heart only works for a while. At some point someone will come through the hard layer you applied and make room in your soft heart. If you keep resisting love, it will eventually find you on its own. Let love enter your life however it wants and don’t hold back when it feels right. Go with the flow. Be there in the moment. The greatest love stories begin when we least expect them and when we aren’t even looking for them.
(January 21 to February 18)
You can be your own person while still loving someone else. Being in love doesn’t mean being stuck or tied up. You are still the wild, brave, and independent being you always were, even in a committed relationship. You can combine your independence and your love life in one. The two are not difficult to reconcile with each other. Think about this before you push someone special away from your life.
(February 19 to March 20)
Being loved can make you more beautiful, but it doesn’t make you beautiful. Your inside makes you beautiful. Even if no one is looking, you are still a work of art. Love will not and cannot save you from your inner demons. It won’t automatically fix your mistakes and weaknesses or suddenly erase all of your most difficult life struggles. Love will only comfort you in the dark times. She will lift you up and motivate you to be a better version of yourself every day.