(March 21st to April 19th)
Aries know that you have found your partner for life because you finally feel that you made a conscious decision for him and not that you are together just because he wants you to. You don’t see the relationship as a punishment or a loss of your independence and freedom, you just feel like you’ve found a partner for life who wants to go through any adventure with you. You don’t want to be with someone who is holding you back.
(April 20th to May 21st)
You know you’ve finally found the partner for life because you’re finally not questioning every part of the relationship. You are not wondering if your relationship is the right decision or if he is going to leave you and what if you are not meant to be together and how can you trust him? Your gut instinct is telling you to make him feel like the most confident, happiest, and safest version of yourself.
(May 22nd to June 21st)
You know that you have finally found your partner for life because you can show your true colors in front of him – for the first time in your life. You don’t feel the need to always be the fun, easy, and lively version of yourself because you’ve convinced yourself beforehand that that’s the only way to get men to love you. Well, do you feel like you can show both sides of yourself and the man will love you anyway.
(June 22nd to July 22nd)
Cancer know you have finally found your partner for life because you are no longer afraid that you will be exploited. You found someone who values the relationships in their life more than anything – just like you do – so you no longer worry about whether they’re just taking advantage of your kindness and empathy. You can finally be your thoughtful, open and vulnerable self and you are sure that he loves you for who you are and not for what you can do for him.
(July 23rd to August 22nd)
You know you’ve finally found your partner for life because you finally feel like you’re not entirely responsible for the relationship, and while that’s usually your comfort zone, you know it’s not healthy. You are used to going your own way, leading your love life and being in control of everything.
But with this man you have finally found your soul mate – someone who walks through life with you, supports you, challenges and encourages you. You’ve never experienced anything like this before, and while it’s intimidating and strange, it’s also the best and most vulnerable you’ve ever felt.
(23 August to 22 September)
You know you have finally found your partner for life because this man is the first person you’ve ever met who makes you understand why people go through the harsh aspects of love. In the past, you’ve just found dating and relationships constantly stressful, discouraging, and anxious.
And while this love now is still throwing you off balance and out of your comfort zone, it makes the amount of happiness, comfort, care, and total appreciation you feel from your partner absolutely valuable.
(September 23 to October 22)
You know that you finally found your partner for life because you finally stopped worrying about missing out on other opportunities when you settle down with him. In the past, you’ve always had attachment issues because you were so scared you would miss your partner, but you finally met someone you love and who you feel so connected with that you can’t even imagine your life without them can.
The decision to be with him doesn’t feel like an establishment in any way – it just feels like you’re choosing the path that will bring you the most happiness.
(October 23 to November 22)
Scorpio know that you have finally found your partner for life, because for once you want to open up to someone and share your life with them. You are used to attracting men and always keeping them at a safe distance. You feel safer and more relaxed when you keep your life secret and private from the people you are with.
But with this man you have the urge to open up, to stop being so mysterious and stubborn and to enjoy the feeling of becoming vulnerable, whom you trust enough to treat your heart well.
(November 23rd to December 21st)
You know that you have finally found your partner for life because you have the feeling that you really want to be practical and serious about your love life for once. In the past, you have preferred to be carefree, nonchalant, and uncertain about your relationship or relationships. You liked to have open options that were constantly uncertain.
But now, for the first time, you feel like you really want to bond – as if you wanted to define the relationship, determine what you want and give your all to make it work, instead of just experiencing another situation, in that you “just want to see what happens”.
(December 22nd to January 20th)
You know that you have finally found your partner for life, because love no longer makes you tired. You stopped feeling like you were with someone who never fully understood you and you stopped feeling like you had to help them understand who you are. Instead, you’re with someone who just understands you, often without your having to say anything.
(January 21 to February 18)
You know that you have finally found your partner for life because you are no longer trying to protect yourself and you no longer feel love that bad. In past relationships, you’ve gone to great lengths to hide your private matters and open yourself up just enough, but never far below the surface.
That was because your heart had never felt completely safe with anyone before, until now. Now you still feel scared, intimidated, and vulnerable as hell, but you feel it with someone you feel so connected, so joyful, and so safe with that you are ready to take the risk of getting hurt. This man is worth it.
(February 19 to March 20)
You know you finally found your partner for life because you feel like this man shook you awake. In the past, you’ve been comfortable with being more passive, you’ve never made decisions one way or another, and you’ve just let things happen.
And now, suddenly, this man has come into your life and has managed to make you curious and excited and as if you suddenly felt the need to take your life into your own hands again. It makes you feel like the best version of yourself and you never want to be the same again.