Are you wondering why you keep falling in love with the wrong men? Often it is just up to us, but if we take a deep look inside ourselves and see the real problem, we are best placed to change something about it.
Astrology gives us great insight into our personalities and the way we tick. Every zodiac sign falls in love differently, but why? Look under yours!
(March 21st to April 20th)
You firmly believe that men are much better than they actually are. When you start to fall in love with someone, you often get blinded by your affection and rationalize your partner’s negative traits in order to convince yourself that he is not that bad.
It’s not that you really choose the wrong men, but that you struggle to see the men for who they really are as soon as your feelings are involved. When it comes to these things, you have to go to extra lengths to be clear.
You take pride in being able to think logically, but this is an area of your life that is easy to get lost in. It is good to see everything in a positive light, but you also have to learn to sometimes take things as they are and not beautify them, this will save you a lot of trouble.
(April 21 to May 20)
You’re a little too hasty. Life exists in your head, and because of this, you are happiest when things go well and make sense. The idea that other people are unable to find the right relationship and settle in front of you can have a bad impact on you.
On the other hand, you can enter into a relationship and even though you are not 100% sure about your partner, you become overly clingy and want to maintain that kind of “perfect life”. A chaotic breakup is not part of your “perfect life” and you suffer much longer than necessary because you are not ready to go through the necessary process to find your true soulmate.
(May 21 to June 21)
You get obsessed with men too quickly. It’s not because you’re gullible, it’s easy to get caught up in their positive traits and love the way these men make you feel. You are not necessarily blinded by love, you are so much in love that you want to give yourself completely to that love without really looking at things from a more rational perspective.
Actually, you are an incredible life partner when you find the right person. You are loyal, devoted, and would do anything to make your partner happy. The problem is that you are too ready to give your all to men even though they don’t care about you at all.
(June 22nd to July 22nd)
You are the most underrated romantic of the zodiac sign. While many people would ascribe this title to Libra, in reality you are. You fall in love very quickly and intensely and very often live in your own little fairy tale.
This is a fairy tale that for the most part only exists in your head. You fall in love with men who reciprocate a lot of your emotions. That said, you’d be more likely to be with someone who made you feel fulfilled or inspired.
If you combine your desire to bond with the feeling of being understood, you are misinterpreting it into thinking that you have found the right partner. The good news is that you are a perfect partner when you are with the right person. But the bad news is that you can switch lots of partners until you find the right one.
(July 23rd to August 23rd)
You fall in love with the ideas of men and not their real faces. And these ideas fit your ego more than your heart. You love the way they look, treat you, and how other people see you together. But none of these things are enough to develop true love. To find out what you are really looking for, you have to do the thing that you have avoided for so long and be vulnerable enough to see who really suits you.
(August 24th to September 23rd)
You are too critical of your potential partners. While this may seem like you are having a hard time falling in love with someone, very often you will find a person who you think is perfectly perfect. You feel this way because of your false expectations and get very angry when the relationship doesn’t work out.
There is a difference between the type of person you think is “right” and the type of person you actually connect with and really get along with. There is no perfect person on the, but there is a person who fits you perfectly.
(September 24th to October 23rd)
You are desperately looking for a fairy tale. Libra is not meant to be alone. She is ruled by Venus and in most cases it means that she loves having a partner by her side. Libra needs their significant other and they need to be loved.
This is especially difficult for the introverted or very independent Libra. This combination usually means that they are resilient to feeling dependent on someone while at the same time craving to be dependent on someone. Usually they project all of these desires onto the wrong person and then get confused when it doesn’t work out.
(October 24th to November 22nd)
You don’t actually fall in love, you are looking for someone who you think can give you some deep, dark satisfaction and if that doesn’t work out, you blame them for everything. You fall in love with the wrong men because you don’t choose them out of love. If you are ready to open your heart and let them in, they will come and it will be beautiful.
(November 23rd to December 21st)
You never make the right decision when it comes to choosing the right partner. This is interesting because Sagittarius is known for analyzing everything and always making the right decisions.
But you love to have fun and that’s what gets you in trouble. The person you are interested in today may not have the qualities to long-term relationships with you. Plus, you’re known for letting go of true love for stupid reasons.
(December 22nd to January 20th)
You are looking for a man who gives your life a purpose and meaning. Capricorns love to be with someone they perceive to be more down to earth than themselves. For him it is very comforting to be the one who is not in charge all the time, or who is constantly trying to sort everything out at once.
But this is never an equal partnership because you cannot have a truly free flowing exchange of love and respect when you are using each other to meet unmet needs.
(January 21 to February 19)
You think too logically about love. You choose partners based on traits that you believe are compatible with your own, and while you aren’t really wrong about this, you forget that chemistry is not rational.
It either exists or it doesn’t. Working on yourself doesn’t change anything and you can’t control it. You have to understand the fact that the man who is meant for you will have feelings for you and you don’t have to understand why that is.
(February 20th to March 20th)
You enjoy life and take everything with a sense of humor. You change partners very often and therefore you are not taken seriously. Understand that if you are not willing to give up your previous lifestyle, you will not find the type of relationship you are looking for.
Stop worrying about unimportant things like whether your partner is big or not, whether or not they have money, or whether your parents will accept them. You will only be happy when you enter into a relationship with someone who fulfills and supports you without them having to prove their love for you. In other words, let love be free and illogical and let it come into your life when it wants it to.
The moment she comes, open your heart to her and let her conquer you. You will be so lucky to have done this.